In most cases your example is considered to be more correct. However, there is nothing incorrect about an abreviated version, and considering this is a 'forum', i think it makes more sense to write things the way you say them, rather than how they should be written.
If I ever get to where I am going, will I know when I am there?
I don't think he is going to worry too much about it since what we are talking about is a apostrophe and I don't think they are allowed in member names any way. So quoting anybody the way you want, should really never ever happen, unless you are getting a quote from somewhere else. As you can see the regular quote system does work.